Imagine the things you want to do, places you want to go, improvements you want to make to yourself I have made a deliberate decision to keep my mind focused on the "me" without my W. It ain't easy...but it is, IMHO, the only way you and I and anyone else here will get through this with our sanity and self-esteem intact.
Let's agree to let our spouses stew in their own juices, and not let their misery keep us from moving forward.
This is a beautiful statement.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.
