Its my life

[aeolianchaos]

[quote=GAL Man]Journaling

Feel VERY strange today

I always said that I would only try and get back with W if we could both change, both acknowledge our contributions and work on them, but now I am not so sure if I want to. Is this a natural progression?


I won't say I don't care, as I do, but I am not "involved" with it. I have detached quite well now.

The bad feeling I have atm are guilty feeling for not finding her attractive atm or not wanting her back, not the longing for her I had before.

Tell me I'm not MAD

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I suspect it is. I know I'm sharing in that feeling in many ways - my W moved out about 6 days after yours, so maybe its a natural progression of emotions and thoughts - you process and own your authentic feelings, figure out where you'd rather be headed, and get there. I think the WAS often is not processing things, finding the 'spin' that makes them right, or just opting to avoid or deny the things that wouldn't justify their decisions. I don't know if its a conscious decision - probably a lot of pain and fear in there, and it's probably just something they can't do and aren't too motivated to do (or, aren't aware of the good reasons to do so).