jtish- I feel ur pain. I really do understand where u are coming from. Myself and my XH are kind of in the same spot of the whole bonding thing. All I can say is sit back and cry ur tears for being hurt all over again and then do some reasessing. Figure out what is best for yourself and the kids. Seek some counceling to really help you plow threw some of this. He has hurt you teice now with the same woman who sounds like the type of I want you til I have you then I dont want you again til I see you happy again. But really sit back and figure out if you CAN trust him or if you are sick of the yo-yo ride. And is this how you want to live your life. But really take care of you and do soul searching to figure it out. Best of luck and well wishes to you and the boys.
t=5.5yrs m=4 kids=4 (8,9,10,&11) I dropped the bomb 10-09 regaining myself in house seperation 9-6-09 divorce final 4-19-10 Moved out 9-17-09
