He had an emotional affair and is now living w the OW. He was the WAS and I filed I believe now and was half doing it to get him to look at the bigger picture and see that he was about to loose all and needed to either a) do something to change it or B) go threw with it if that was really what he wanted. He let it go threw and now here we are almost 2 yrs later going ah...... he is not happy. I am not happy. And now it is a what do we about what has been done. I often times wonder if I am co dendent when it comes to him, but it boils down to when I took vows I took them to heart and said them with all I had to give. I thought I would be happier and that I would never be able to trust him again. Now I know I am not happier but I still question could I trust him.
t=5.5yrs m=4 kids=4 (8,9,10,&11) I dropped the bomb 10-09 regaining myself in house seperation 9-6-09 divorce final 4-19-10 Moved out 9-17-09
