Had a doctor's appt yesterday - routine stuff. I like this doctor, and told him about my situation. His words of wisdom makes sense for me, DG, tele, jb and many others on this site:

"If you love her, just keep on loving her"

About all we can do, near as I can tell.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012