Yes, the 'ol helpful friends and family from DR. I have been striving to and have been fortunate enough to surround myself with people who are drinking the DB Kool-Aid so to speak. It's hard when your best friend isn't buying in to what you're doing, though, and tells you that you should just D and move on.
Bottom line is you have to be able to look yourself in the mirror if this doesn't work out and be able to tell yourself you tried everything possible to save your M. You have to be able to look your boys in the eye and tell them the same thing. You also are going to be able to see how much you've grown and improved as a person.
