This is Heartbroken - we talked on the phone way back in 2007. You helped me so much and I just wanted to thank you for all your input!
I did bust our divorce - he actually filed but then realized that this did not make him happy either. When he told the OW he was questioning going ahead with the divorce (she was already divorced 8+ mos by this point) she went ballistic and showed her true colors - she hung herself as you always told me she would!
We are doing great and we no longer take our marriage for granted. We used to walk and talk about our sitch – sort of a therapy - for hours each week. We still refer to his ‘dumb-a$$ days’ but not nearly as often. He is so happy he did not make the biggest mistake of throwing our relationship away, after he saw the real OW he realized how much he would have lost!
I am sorry to hear you are still struggling with your sitch, hopefully you find some closure soon!
I am glad to see you are posting again – I know you can help others as you did for me!
Not Heartbroken anymore!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing