Actually the MC helped us a lot and helped advance my way of thinking with respect to my W. We will go back to him but I think we didn't drill down enough with him. I think we both know what needs to happen with MC next time.
My W finally agreed to IC to help her work on her own things. I know there are ups and downs and am working on that part
I do want to fix thing but I want to fix things with my W. Not alone.
Thx for your help
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
In your case, I think your W would benefit from IC in conjunction with MC. Sometimes when the WAS is in their confused state, they say things about how they feel right now and forget about the good times. If the IC was pro-marriage, that would be a great help. If the IC was someone who would encourage her to follow through on how she feels right now, you could be in trouble.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
