WTH? If your father just hit you at your age and you just took it, it's no wonder why you're doing what you're doing with your ex.
First things first. START STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF!
You don't deserve to be hit. NO ONE DOES! You shouldn't have to be afraid that your dad will come over. For you to want to save your M, you are the stronger person here. Don't ever let anyone tear you down.
Second, stop being so friendly with your X. Saying things like how he's going to be a good father-figure or whatever just encourages him and shows that you are okay for him leaving you.
You can agree that there were things about the R you two needed to work out, but stop being his buddy buddy. You want to get back together with him right? If he gets the idea that you're fine with him leaving, even if he breaks up with OW, he will find someone else to move on to.
He has to see you as the one with value. As an independent woman. As an individual. NOT as a buddy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
