Can My Marriage Be Saved?

[a girl]

Had a bad morning but good evening (so far). H said this morning I'd been "cranky" "all night last night" and "all morning". Pointed out that I started my morning stepping in cat puke, and that I wished he'd pointed out my bad mood last night. Said the refi hit me a little, and left it at that.

I mailed him once (bad! need to not mail first) about some changes at work - he responded with a few paragraphs, so I responded (bad, again!) asking if we could talk about it tonight - said I'd value his thoughts/perceptions. The chat went well - we chatted about other stuff while cooking dinner together, then chatted through dinner, and a bit after. Probably a full hour of talking, so that was nice.

I left to come to the office (ending contact first).

He mailed me later in the day about some refi stuff, then called me toward the end of the day to tell me he couldn't find his wallet (during the call he said "Not really sure why I called you, but .. wanted you to know, I guess") and then mailed me to say he'd found his wallet.

So, some contact initiated by me (trying to stop, usually much better), lots initiated by him. Not sure what if it means anything - still observing.

Glad my posts got through - was starting to worry I was cursed.