Actually the MC helped us a lot and helped advance my way of thinking with respect to my W. We will go back to him but I think we didn't drill down enough with him. I think we both know what needs to happen with MC next time.

My W finally agreed to IC to help her work on her own things. I know there are ups and downs and am working on that part

I do want to fix thing but I want to fix things with my W. Not alone.

Thx for your help

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.