We've already endured previous divorces; does she think this one will be any easier?
Yes, you would only hope that she knows better.
Originally Posted By: any chance?
As a good friend of mine tells me, there is no logic here. No rhyme, no reason. We have to be the best we can be, and do it for ourselves. Do we hope they notice? Of course we do. But we can't put a timetable on it or let it consume us. Keep your eye on the ball,and don't get overwhelmed by that which is out of your control.
I don't think I could've said it any better.
Unfortunately, we are competing with this fantasy that doesn't exist. And the thing that really sux is we're husband will to do ANYTHING to make it work. That's why we're help.
