Similar thoughts, wondering if it was all going to be worth it. Had I really changed? Wondering if any little fight could blow up and be our last.
I brought a deal to the table and we both agreed to it.
If something could be taken one of two ways, please give the benefit of the doubt, choose the good way. IF I wanted to be mean, there would be no doubt about it. Likewise we both promised not to hold things in or back. That way hadn't worked in the past.
The real plan to piecing?
Little things over time. Knowing that YOU are going to be doing alot of the work, sometimes all of it. Little things over time and she fell in love with me again...or rather...allowed it to bloom in her again.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
