Hang tough, tele - if we believe at all what we are trying to do and what we are told by the good people here, we have to hang tough and see it through. The WAW are in a fog - mine in depression, yours in EA - convinced the grass is greener. It isn't, and we can only hope we have the physical and mental strength to see this bulls*t through while the WAWs figure that out.
As a good friend of mine tells me, there is no logic here. No rhyme, no reason. We have to be the best we can be, and do it for ourselves. Do we hope they notice? Of course we do. But we can't put a timetable on it or let it consume us. Keep your eye on the ball,and don't get overwhelmed by that which is out of your control.
Thinking of you.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012