although I want to acknowledge that they have made progress.
Only a few months ago things looked a lot worse than they do now.
I don't know if it's semantics or more, but clearly they are not reconciled yet,
but they are considering it...that's something.
As for the anniversary
I feel it's kind of important to say something, but not to do a lot.
It's a fine line --but I do NOT believe
that any Single thing Denver does or says, short of a big event, (e.g., hitting her, screaming, losing his temper or repeating old bad behaviors in a big way)
will determine their future.
Denver, remember that question I asked,
which was something like
"isn't the core reason for your past mistreatment of your w,
based on fear in some form? Fear of losing control, fear of her leaving you", etc.
And those fears were the reason you criticized her, & fear is why you sometimes berated her and well...
rather than me going on in this line, b/c... well,
b/c I don't want to rehash the negatives
as I honestly believe you have owned your part
I just want to show you the possibility you are repeating old behaviors...at some level.
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