Originally Posted By: theoden

If she's sorry, and had asked for your forgiveness, then it will be easier than if she's not. Forgiveness becomes a chared burden.

If she's not sorry, then forgivness is a solo enterprise. It probably means that the relationship can't be healed.


Very well put - i love her and she loves me but it will never be the same, she has never been open with me, never answered my questions, she would rather act like it never happened..she was sorry they got caught.and is embarrassed in my opinion why she doesn't talk..which is BS to me.

i beleive i am stuck in a place that has no good choice for a solution.

gman


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