Unless there's a no contact "rule", For anniversaries, why not send a card or flowers and write
"It's still worth remembering"...
I saved this from one of 25's post and think it fits your sitch Denver. The card and flowers might be too much, perhaps just a simple text. IDK. Something to think about I suppose.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
