Thank you. I am going to make a copy of this and hang it up where i can read it often.
The one thing that concerns me is that h has a rental property that he has to sell, it's in short sale, i dont know if this will effect the d settlement if it comes to that, Im not on the mortgage loan or deed though. Do you know the legal ramnifications of this? L said since im not on mortgage its not my responsibility.
If your L said that, then I would accept that. I can't give legal advice here anyhow.
And I don't know your state, etc.
But as I said, if the L is yours (not h's) and saw the necessary documents or you know them well enough
that's it from a legal standpoint.
The problem is financial, not legal. A short sale will decrease the amount of property owned as assets
and that decreases your share. The more HE spends, or loses,
the less YOU & son get.
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