Originally Posted By: rysmom
Thank you. I am going to make a copy of this and hang it up where i can read it often.

The one thing that concerns me is that h has a rental property that he has to sell, it's in short sale, i dont know if this will effect the d settlement if it comes to that, Im not on the mortgage loan or deed though. Do you know the legal ramnifications of this? L said since im not on mortgage its not my responsibility.


If your L said that, then I would accept that. I can't give legal advice here anyhow.

And I don't know your state, etc.

But as I said, if the L is yours (not h's) and saw the necessary documents or you know them well enough

that's it from a legal standpoint.

The problem is financial, not legal. A short sale will decrease the amount of property owned as assets

and that decreases your share. The more HE spends, or loses,

the less YOU & son get.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
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