I agree with 25. I did have a brain fart in that I forgot that there was talk about reconciling. IMO, if I were in your shoes, Denver, as much as this anniversary reminds you of what is, I'd be upbeat and happy because of what can be.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112