LITB - Blame-shift is a crappy human flaw, and so is the lack of grace. It constantly surprises me how universal WAS' behaviors are. Heck, not just spouses, but even between friends and family - the behavior just saddens me. Even the most loving and religious people become so unloving and disconnected, and they often rationalize their behavior to the fact that humans have limits. True, humans have limits, but I see that as an excuse, an excuse that (to me, at least) point back to the human condition/Fall of Man/universal introduction of sin/etc. It's the very same "excuse" Christ came to earth to eradicate, and is repeated over and over in his teachings. It's not just about love, patience, grace, humbleness, guys -- Christ wants us to mimic Him and be more like Him, rather than dwell on our human condition or flaws. So, saying we have reached our "limits" just allows the Devil to win a little bit more.
Hang tight, bro. I continue to pray for healing and God's intervention in the marriages/relationships of all of us here.
I hear what you are saying Alamo.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
