Originally Posted By: Denver_2010

It is tough for me, because W and I are talking about possible reconciliation.


You guys have discussed it.....at length and probably too much in my opinion.

Ball is completely in her court.

Discussing reconciling and actually reconciling are 2 different things.

Is she trying to get to a point to where she feels comfortable "COMMITING" again........

YES

Has she committed yet??????

NO

She has very clearly stated that there are "No guarantees"

Translate.........

I do not know what I want, I don't know if I want to be married and furthermore I don't know if I want to be married to you.

Still wanna send that "Happy Anniversary" text???

Really, she is not with you on your Anniversary.....actions speak louder than words.......

I am not trying to stoke the fire here......

Just a little reality check......

There will be other Anniversaries to celebrate.....

Don't worry about this one.....

fact is that you will want to forget about this one anyway....

no matter the outcome.

Make the day forgetable........do nothing special.

It is Monday.......do whatever you would normally do on any other Monday.

Hard to do I know but this stuff ain't easy.

Cheers

Formerly "missherlove"

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison