This IS craziness. Unfortunately, it sounds like she's in for a rude awakening.
Here is something else that is crazy. When we went to NM for Christmas, she let her family know that we are getting a D. I was a wreck. I didn't want to be around anyone, except my family.
My sister called me to let me know that her goddaughter had posted on FB that my W was moving to NM and she will be moving in with her. My kids obviously didn't know anything was going on with us. I told my W about it to protect our kids. She called her goddaughter, who then denied it. My W then blamed my family for not liking her goddaughter and made me feel like crap for even bringing it up.
The ridiculous thing is, how would my sister know/find out from someone else that her goddaughter is moving in with her? That had to be a discussion between them.
I apologized to my W even though it was obviously true.
I got upset with my sister, but it turns out that she had the best interest of my kids in mind.
LBS taking on all the burden.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa