I was in your shoes last week, it was our Anniversary last Thursday. It went unacknowledged by both of us. Like you, I also haven't had any contact with my H since last wednesday when he sent me that text I posted on my thread.
I admit, I'm a little jealous that you can be angry about things. I wish I could, anger was always my defense mechanism and I have vowed to not do anything out of anger again. Being angry would make things so much easier.
As for wishing her a Happy Anniversary, I'm not sure how you should proceed. I mean, it isn't exactly a happy time in your M right now. I suppose you could say something else if you really wanted to, but I am at a loss as to what it should be.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤