No worries Alamo. I am following both for thoughts on the issue. It is tough for me, because W and I are talking about possible reconciliation.

So I am questioning whether or not I should really just ignore today... even if she does.

I don't know.

Thanks for your advice Alamo.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce