74 Days - Who Knows?

[MHL]

Like I said, today is our anniversary. I'm not sure whether or not I should send W a text or something to at least acknowledge it.

I would appreciate some thoughts on that...

thanks
Denver

Denver,

Man, I remember when my Anniversary came up while my XW and I were separated and it was tough...... it is tough on everyone

I feel for you......I know you are hurting today.....

However, you will HURT more if you make any type of contact with your W.

Any response or no response from her will fall short of your expectations and WILL cause you more pain.

If you are afraid that if you do not acknowledge the day to her will somehow impact her decision.........well "Quash It" (Sorry, my GF makes me watch Jersey Shore, LOL)

If she says something to you later as to why you did not call or text on your anniversary..........another simple response will do.

W, you are undecided about our marriage, I do not feel that celebrating the date we were married is appropriate while you are undecided as to whether or not you would like to continue to be married to me.

I will tell you that tomorrow will be just another day and you will look back on today as just another day.......it will fade with TIME.

Focus on you, think about you, do what is right for you.

The universal constant in every situation that is here on these boards is TIME.

This stuff takes TIME........

The TIME passes easier if you are not looking at your spouse.

With the passing of TIME comes the knowledge that YOU WILL survive and be HAPPY.......

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.........

Cheers