74 Days - Who Knows?

[Denver_2010]

If she does decide to work on the marriage it is going to be very difficult for you to maintain the "New and Improved Denver" and also properly lay down the boundaries you want.

I am worried about this ^^^ ... I will have to figure it out when and if the time comes.

You want to make this easier on you.........

Stop being around her and limit the contact.........

If she asks why.........tell her.

W, the reason I choose to not be around you or limit contact with you is because you are undecided about our M and it will be more painfull for me if I have contact with you and you choose to end our M.

Simple.

When she DECIDES that she wants to work on the Marriage, then you tell her what you need as far as a boundary.

Until that time she is living her life...........

and you should be living yours.........

This is the direction that I may very well have to go if there is a significant step by W to commit to the M at the end of July, beginning of August.

Thanks for the advice MHL.

Denver