This is part of the reason I do not want to live in NM. I do not like dealing with this crazy drama.
I agree with you 100%. What was an ant-hill will become a mole-hill.
LITB, what you are doing. Your fighting for the kids is the right thing to do.
Right now your wife is trying to guilt you into giving up. I was in the same exact boat a month back. My wife went to extent of totally vilifying me about me being a good dad. And mind you this was just for her to give up on sole custody. That should give you an example of how far things can go. I pray and hope things are gonna be smoother for you.
Dam* our bloody egos that we are willing to fight this ugly knowing very well how destroyed the families are gonna be and affected the kids are gonna be.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...