This is part of the reason I do not want to live in NM. I do not like dealing with this crazy drama.
I don't blame you one bit.
Originally Posted By: Left_in_the_Bay
My W calls me first thing this morning while I was getting ready for work.
W: It has already started, the rumors are already flying. Someone told my friend's mom that I am abandoning my kids. I haven't even told my family anything, so it is coming from your side. I know how your mom likes to gossip. Tell her to watch what she says.
M: My mom hasn't told my sisters. I don't know who is spreading rumors. I don't know what to tell you.
W: I know it isn't you. It has to be your mom.
M: I have already asked my mom not tell anyone anything. I have to go. I need to finish getting ready for work.
This is part of the reason I do not want to live in NM. I do not like dealing with this crazy drama.
My W(STBX) does not take responsibility for any of this mess. She looks to blame anyone, but herself. I know she has told her family, because she said this yesterday......
W: My step-mom and my half sister can't believe it.
M: Can't believe which part?
W: That you are fighting for the kids.
M: What a ridiculous idea, a father would fight for his kids.
This IS craziness. Unfortunately, it sounds like she's in for a rude awakening.