First of all, I just noticed that you've been posting here even longer than me..........Going on 6 years! 10 years is a generation!
I just think of all the changes I've gone through in that time. A year in Iraq, being away from my civilian job for 2 years, going through a horrible divorce, meeting a new woman,being back at work for almost three years, remarrying, buying a new house........I can't imagine what I would be like if I was stuck in the same conditions as 2006, and you've been here a year longer.
I agree whole-heartedly with oldtimer. Do SOMETHING. Life is for LIVING. Make some sort of change, either try to reconcile or get out. If she's not interested in reconciling, get out for your own sake. It's time.............