Cadet, I admire those who continue to stand long beyond their D, but admit I don't quite understand.
To understand this you must understand that
MLC is a process.
I believe in MLC, I believe in the process. I understand the process. I understand that MLC take TIME.
Originally Posted By: MLC World
it would be unhealthy to live in the past
I absolutely believe you are correct about this!
That is why we must look in the mirror and make changes for US!
Not to win our spouses back but so that we are not stuck in the past. This is a very hard concept and something that has taken me a long time to understand.
Take it one step at a time and you too will begin to understand.
