4 months........

[ninelives]

DG:

I have had those days and still do sometimes. Exoect them from time to time but dont give in to them. Thats the key.

In other words, dont let them :

A) Paralyze you so that you wallow in self pity ( been there)

B) make you do something that you will regret later. Keep up with your DBing even if it isnt getting him back.

Keep doing it for you. I promise you it will get better someday but in the meantime, dont create more pain.

I feel for you DG. We all know what that pain is like and dont wish that on too many people ( I wish it on OM) but beyond that, .........

I hope this is a minor blip and you feel better tomorrow but you have to make it so. Do Something different tomorrow. Force Yourself not to think about it all the time.

You are in control as tough as it is, Ultimatel, you make the decesions on how you feel.

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