"Well I have do have a fair amount of time as well. Too much time. Lets just say I peaked early and will not be going any higher unless i move. Which can't happen with the divorce. I am not going to move away from my 3 boys.. I am bored with the job, but can't do much about it."
I wouldn't be too sure of this at all. You may well have been stuck in your life in a lot of ways because of the old M in ways you don't yet realize. Surprises await, good ones :-)
