Its my life

[GAL Man]

Just reading back over the convo's with W yesterday, and I think I didn't do toooooooo bad, and remained calm throughout.

Just also though RE yesterday that not once did I show anything other than happiness (didn’t think about “doing” it at the time actually, it’s just the way I was, so must be true LOL)

Would love to get the BITS comments and opinions


I still feel OK, even after W saying we couldn’t get back together, but IDK. Looking back I think it was a strange question to ask if I would have W back, even though she then said she was only asking! Why ask?

Anyway, new rules for me (well some of the same but enforced more)

1) I will carry on doing what I have been doing with regard to GAL activities (with and without kids), these are for me and the kids, W has noticed which is also good and said it’s like I am the great dad

2) No R talk whatsoever, if W initiatives then I will be non committal, unless asked specifics, then response will be something like, I am thinking things through and not sure ATM

3) When we get together for bowling, fun time only, no “old” me, only the new me, again which W has commented on a few times

4) No more words, just actions, so W can see consistently the new me she has commented on, and understand that things could be different. W has noticed, now W need to realise what she would be missing

5) Back to dark (well dark grey LOL)

6) Continue being upbeat and happy

7) No more “waiting around” carry on with my life, and if W wants back in, she knows may stance and where I am, then it will be my choice and my choice alone. If not then she is a fool