Sometimes you act like this should be easy 25. I'm trying to get a grip and stop obsessing... but it is so much easier said than done.
It is easy if you focus on the fact that you caught OM on toilet 20(?) days ago. Remember that visual?
You should be more focused on what Denver is doing than worrying about "being with her". Your confidence level at this point should be, if she wants to be with me, she will.
Now ask yourself..."What am I doing to make her curious as to what I'm up to?".
Next time she checks in, try not responding for a full 24 hours...can you do that? Even if it feels counter-intuitive...do it. What do you have to lose?
Otherwise, call the the "show" and find out who is going to be there. There are generic/anonymous ways to get information without ever being found out.
No, no way for me to find out. It is a private party. The person putting on the party has no idea which players are scheduled to show up for the band, other than W and the male vocalist. That is left up to the owner of the entertainment company that W works for.
This...
"Your confidence level at this point should be, if she wants to be with me, she will."
Is very true...
Thanks for reminding me of that Faith.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
