my heart is breaking

[kermitdfrog]

Thanks for your response 25,

I did not keep my son from the event. He and my daughter refused to go. They don't want to be around their dad. (the intervention dinner was the first time in months)

I went to see his mom to help him and because it was the right thing to do. I am trying to be the supportive wife that I should have been before. He really is under a lot of stress and I want to help. It was absolutely not to get a reaction.

Again, I really sound a lot more crazy and desperate here because I am using this to vent and get my ugly feelings out. I do not sound like this with him.

My DB coach actually thinks I am doing a pretty good job.

Detaching is definitely my biggest challenge. But I continue to try. I'm a work in progress.