not going to the nephew event though you were invited AND keepingyour son from going
doesn't seem healthy and going to his mother's seems like you wanted to do it to get a reaction from him or his family
I don't know. But it's not detaching for sure.
Your post was all about how to get HIM to do or say or feel something and it
just comes off as desparation from you.
I'm just wondering what it'll take for you to be more
disciplined about this
b/c either you don't buy into what we (and your DB coach) are saying
or you lack discipline.
OR you don't really want this...
You decide. Don't think it was easy for me or anyone else here.
We were all scared and all felt rejected and confused.
But we eventually made a choice to act with a consistent approach for at least awhile
to give it a real try.
How are you going to feel if things don't improve and you
have never really DBd?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
