see what WCW said and just Do something really different.
For once I'd like you to actually follow through with real changes in YOUR behavior
expect something from him other than words...
good grief
the other day he blamed YOU for his drinking
2 days later he's "really different"?
Really?
Have you really read "Co Dependent No More"?
Do you think you are helping HIM by
repeating the same insane behavior over & over?
As if HE can go cold turkey...um the reason he won't go to AA is b/c he'll have to be accountable to someone
and he does NOT want that...I have known ONE man who got sober without AA (and 44 who had to use AA)
But
He did not have an enabling wife. HIS Wife said
"Get sober or get divorced," and she left him...he hated AA b/c he's atheist,
but he did get sober...
If your h could do it on his own, he'd have done it by now.
IF your same behavior was helpful, he'd have gotten sober by now.
Just read my older posts to you and see if they make sense to you today...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
