25, the reason he told me OW was great etc was my fault. I asked if he loved her. Stupid I know! He didnt say yes he said he had feelings for her because they have fun together, she is smart, etc. At least he didnt say he loved her. But it still hurt. But I also acknowledge I did it to myself.
Thank you for clarifying about hitting rock bottom. I have read so many posts and even ones from former MLCers where they say they needed to hit rock bottom otherwise they would have continued with their selfish ways.
We are a long way off reconciling but my MIL still believes that we will. I really hope that she is right.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
