I wanted to acknowledge what you wrote the other night. Im sorry too. I felt awful about what transpired hence the reason I left.
I wanted you to know that I had been having such a great time the last couple of weeks. The football, bowling and dinner were great.
Thanks again,
Red
H's reply:
Hi Red,
I have enjoyed the last couple of occasions that we have gone out as a family. I miss my family a whole lot but I am confused about my life and the direction it is heading. Hopefully with a new job and a change of scenery this will be cleared up.
Saturday afternoon was fun but I was really pissed off that you went through my cupboards. I still am. I wouldn't do that to you. I understand your upset but you had no right to go through my stuff. It is the only stuff I have. You have everything. I have had to start again.
Also I am annoyed that you would try to psychologically analyse me, OW and my situation. You are not a psychologist and do not know what a multi personality disorder is. In fact you don't know her so I don't know why you felt you had a licence to say what you did. That sort of behaviour used to cause problems between mum and me. My relationship is only better with her now because she has stopped.
You are looking great and the time apart has been good for both of us. I would like to continue doing stuff together if you are keen. If you are not I understand but I think it is important for our son and may in time help each of us.
BIL said rollerblades are really gay, so I don't know that I will be investing in a pair of those but you never know.
Love
H
My reply:
Hi H,
I agree I should not have said some of the stuff I did. It was wrong and I apologise.
I also apologise for going through your stuff. It was wrong to do so and I apologise and I will not be doing this again.
I do want to continue doing activities together I have really enjoyed kicking your butt
Thanks for letting me know I look great - its nice of you to notice.
As for BILs comment - hmmmmm......."takes one to know one" hahaha
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11