My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[25yearsmlc]

I wanted to thank all of you for your time and effort posting on my thread. I know i have to work on being more proactive. I dont know what else i should do with m situation now. the only way to protect my assets is to file D in my state . is that what you are all saying i should do?

1) I would accept that for now & the forseeable future,

your h has chosen OW over you

NOT b/c I agree with it or condone it

but b/c that is the truth for now, it's reality, AND

b/c then you won't keep resisting, b/c what we resist, persists

and your h won't keep justifying it in his head/heart. He'll have the space

to question his choices once you stop attacking them.

2) I would NOT contact h at all. Your son is old enough to speak for himself so there's no reason for you to contact your h.

3) I would get a job to support myself so that I could support myself!

4) I would drop any and all interest in OW or what she is doing with h

5) I would focus solely on being the best woman I could be.


6) I would Get A life

7) I would empower myself in all my choices; never a victim.

I'd exercise MY free will and choose to be happy regardless of

what someone else (h) does with HIS life

8) I would take charge of my life and be an upbeat, happy optimistic person who casts no stones.

9) I would become a woman only a fool would leave.

Then, I would leave the results up to God.