I have found your new thread and will follow along.
Very interesting posts from the wise ones who have been at this a long time....
Much of what has been said really resonates in my situation.
Take good care, Hugs
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11