Hello and sorry to meet under these circumstances. There is a lot of support and information on these boards. Have you been reading The Divorce Remedy? It does cover some of the situations you are talking about. If you haven't got it I would make it your priority to get the book.
I'm not nearly as seasoned as others on the board but I'm sure someone will come along who can point you in the right direction much easier than I can. I'm still learning how to Divorce Bust as well.
