Get off the teeter totter with your H. Let him prove with actions that he wants to be sober. Keep your communication at a minimum, don't get pulled back in.

I don't see anything different in the cycle than any other time you've posted about him wanting to be sober and wants you back, and then your next post will be that he is filing papers again. Break the cycle.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.