Hi Dolphin, thanks for responding and im so happy that you are piercing your marriage back together.

I understand that I cannot worry about OW. She is not worth my time or effort. However, it does hurt when you hear your H tell you how much he cares for her and how wonderful and smart she is. But I guess thats why he is with her. It also hurt that she met my inlaws and has been hanging out with BIL and his fiance. I just have to get over this I suppose.

I guess the only thing that I wonder about is this: doesnt my H have to hit rock bottom before the fog lifts? How will that work if I am in contact with him and he continues to see OW? Wont he be having the best of both worlds? 25 I would love to hear your thoughts on this?

W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11