The big punch - Redux

[Redo]

Journaling...

Was supposed to talk to daughter yesterday. But wife said that they would be busy(i guess a party). But she said she would try or text me otherwise. As has happened lately no call came in nor a text.

I call up this morning and wanted to talk with my daughter. So i told my wife

"Wife i thought you said you'd text me if you could not call. Can you just text me or call me if daughter cannot talk?"

W : "Okay i said i am sorry. I thought you'd understand. But if you understood me, we would not be divorcing"

M : "All i asked you was to let me know if daughter is not able to talk. I did wait up last evening waiting on the call"

W : "This is how you were in our marriage. Look do you want to talk to daughter or not.."

Then she hung up. I called again. Talked to daughter.

But i think i got pulled in...I tried to make myself clear that i was just having a ration convo with her and that she is taking it badly. Then she starts crying saying that her life was becoming miserable. Then daughter sees her mom cry and tries to console her (we were skyping so we were on video call). Then she gets even more upset saying that i am causing all this. Then i think her parents were trying to figure out as to what happened.

This is just so crazy. I thought i was asking for something reasonable. But even that was too much for her.

I am supposed to sync up with her for a long time regarding my daughter's visits until my daughter is old enough. Not sure how its gonna be with her having such a bad reaction.

Just wanted to vent out. I really hate the situation i am in right now.