are you saying that you think he has OW and that's why he wanted you to kick him out?
Really? Why do you think that?
I understand the "Statistic" about most men only letting go of their wives when they have another woman in mind
but it's not all of them...and if that's the only "reason" you have, it's hardly "evidence".
Plus he does have issues he wants to work on that have nothing to do with OW
don't you think?
Is there any evidence of ow?
If not, you are inflicting damage and pain onto yourself and
that's SOOO not a good idea.
No, I'm not saying it is happening. I am saying that it is the only thing that makes sense to me wrt our history, H's inability to admit to the same in the past, his constant threats of divorce, his resentment, and his latest preoccupation with moving to the apt - and I'm prepared for it.
It is what happened the last time - people were calling me long distance to tell me what they knew - but didn't tell me before I found out on my own.
I am just trying to prepare myself for anything I guess. I am strong, but I think that anything that surprises me now might just make me crumble. I don't have that luxury right now. I am doing ok though. Feels kind of like an out of body experience.
