Can My Marriage Be Saved?

[a girl]

More journalling - seems to help keep me sane.

H got home from Costco annoyed - they didn't have the bike he wanted at that one. They had it at a couple others that are ~30 minutes away, though. I said "Ok, let's just drive to one and get it". He said "I thought you'd be annoyed at the extra drive and derailing our plans." I said, "No, not at all. We can just find one that has some fun Geocaches near it and go there."

We talked a bit more about why he wanted this particular bike, and in the end, he's going with the one that was at the Costco near us. I just remained quietly supportive of whatever he wanted to do - said either was fine by me and no big deal.

Now he's doing his P90 workout upstairs (this is a new thing since he's been on a diet and exercise kick). S is with him - he likes to do the workouts, although I think he makes it a little difficult. I told H to let me know if he needs me to corral S.

I spent some time on my hair and makeup - I have long, curly hair, and it blows around when the sunroof/windows are down, so I usually have them up - this is a pet peeve of H, so on days when we'll be driving around in the sun, I'm putting my hair up in a dancer's bun so it won't bother me.

I also put on a bit of makeup - I don't usually wear much (just some eye stuff), but it makes me feel prettier, which can't be a bad thing.

I tried the suggestion of a perfume - I have a couple of "usual" ones, but since scent is such a strong memory link, I'm not sure about wearing them - can't be sure they won't provide a link to a negative memory. So I'm wearing Giorgio - one of my favourites from high school that I could never afford. I have a little sampler, and I'm sure if I've ever worn it around H, it's only once or twice.

We're off to Geocache after lunch, so we'll see how that goes.

Any thoughts/feedback/whatever appreciated. Thanks again for just being here.