don't they already talk about the yelling and the behaviors anyhow?
and since you have no control over it...who cares? It's easy for me to say but I do believe in the Serenity prayer and letting go of that over which
I have no control.
Besides, when you come out of this on the other side,
and they see you as a healthier happier woman,
let them talk then.
As for your son, surely he has seen the downside of the M himself.
Please don't assume he has all positive images of your M, and no negatives,
and that all his new views will be negative and none positive.
It's not that clear cut.
It's interesting which words were recalled by your h and how.
We all have our own camera lens with which we see our R's...
Hang in there. You will survive this.
And though many military families do collapse under the weight of the moves and the stresses
of long deployments and the fears that go with it
many survive intact and are close.
Maybe it's because we have only ourselves to hang with in each new environment.
It happens.
Have you ever thought of trying to find your daughter?
Not saying you have to crash her gates and jump into her life,
but to simply know she is fine...?
Might be therapeutic.
We're all rooting for you
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
