M – I know that we were both unhappy but you never said to me what the reason were for splitting up, other than you felt I talked down to you and I was like your dad W – Yes, I got fed up with it M – You said in your words you treated me like sh*t and were a bitch to me, why W – Cannot remember what W said here! M – Why didn’t you tell me over the last couple of years you felt like that and I could have done something about it W – I did M – I’m sorry, but you didn’t say that specifically W – I told you on a few occasions M – Sorry, but 1 thing I have learnt is that in these situations you ask for what you want, you never gave me the opportunity to do anything about it M – I felt that a was a negative circle, where you treated me like you said, sh*t, then I would be negative back and we would go round and round W – I don’t think we could get back together
Other talk
W – But I don’t think we could get back together, please don’t look at this as if we could M – OK M – You still haven’t said you don’t love me W – I care for you greatly and worry about you, I’m sorry
Back in the kitchen, W starts shouting at the kids to get ready. S12 doesn’t want to go to W’s and says so.
W – He only doesn’t want to come round as I haven’t got xbox live M – No that’s not it, he feels left out, and uncomfortable W – I know M – Why don’t you do things with the kids W – I haven’t got any money and cannot afford broadband M – Sorry, but you have purchased loads of new maxi dresses W – Only a few, I need new clothes as I can not fit into my old stuff M – I have started doing things and have a routine with them W – I know, like bowling on Tuesdays M – Well you are welcome to join us W – No answer
W – Well you have more money than me, and you have the savings M – Why are you bringing this up again, sorry this is not my choice to go down this path W – Well you had the money and I had the car, which is not fair as I need a car for work and you have a company car M – Exactly, I only have this savings as I sold my car, If I didn’t have the company car I would need to buy one W - Well its not right, those savings our ours M – Yes they were ours, but I didn’t choose this path, you had the car I had the cash
M – Can you bring the cell phone back next Sunday, as you have your own now W – Why M – I am going to give it to S12 W – Ohh OK, I give the kids my number M – What about the money for the last 2 bills (about $300) W – I will have to give you it in instalments M – OK, but I cannot pay Vodafone in instalments W – Now you are being funny M – No
W get shirty, cannot remember much from here, but I got, well I suppose defensive and finished with something like
M - I don’t want you as a friend W, W – What M – I will be your husband, but not your friend
W shouts at kids to go, said bye and left!!!!
2x4’s!!!!
If I remember anymore I will post a P3
The whole time I spoke softly, calmly and with confidence, but don’t think card and flower for our anniversary will be the right thing now for Sunday!
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
