Not sure if I should ask her if OM is on the show in Aspen or not. I think that asking her makes me look insecure (which I am).
It does. "Weak" and "needy" = "UNATTRACTIVE."
Whatever "verify" part of "trust, but verify" you choose to do, do it INDEPENDENTLY and discreetly, and be done with it. Asking the fox if he's planning on going to the henhouse only p*sses off the fox, and doesn't really deter him anyway.
